What is the best way to win your ex back?
Me and my ex have been apart for nearly 4 week now. We were together for 3 and a half years. I am desperate to get back with her because I still love her so much. I have already tried the begging and crying and it got me nowhere, just made things worse. I am open to all suggestions so please tell me what you think is the best way to win your ex back?
Sorry to hear about the situation you are in. I can tell you are very hurt. You’re right, the begging and crying isn’t going to get you anywhere. Instead, it makes you look weak and makes her feel more guilty. Right now, give each other some space to heal and when there’s been some distance between the two of you, try talking to her then. In the meantime, get busy and be healthy.
it’s best not to do that.
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Forget her and move on…….
Plenty fish in the dish
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do little things that show that you care
but arent obsessed with her
buy her a pop or some gummi bears
just be her friend for a while
be there for her
dont ask to get back with her
just be around enough to know
if shes trying fro anyone else
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"There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The bible said that, "They came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us." [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead. You’ve got to know when it’s dead. You’ve got to know when it’s over…"
Click on the link below for more. I truly found this passage to be inspirational and it has helped me get over a number of things in my life. I hope it blesses you the same way.
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http://www.ecademy.com/node.php?id=141607
If you love her, let her go. If there is a chance, she has to realize that not having you in her life is not what she wants. As long as you are there, begging, crying, buying flowers, calling, sending gifts, apologizing for some imaginary indiscretion, asking her friends if she talks about you, etc. etc. etc. you are not going to have a chance for her to miss you in her heart. Send her a card. Write, "you know I loved our time together, and my fondest wish is for us to be as one again. I’ll stay out of your life, because I respect your wishes, and love you very much. Never be afraid to follow your heart. Remember, I love you."
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the same way won him the first time
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Don’t bother trying. Just accept that maybe it didn’t work out as you had planned and try and stay friends. Trust me, I know that it can be hard but go to her and say you are sorry that you didn’t handle the breakup well and that you want to remain friends. I have seen too many friendships being broken over bad relationship breakups. Try and move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
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ex for a reason think about it
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Sorry to hear about the situation you are in. I can tell you are very hurt. You’re right, the begging and crying isn’t going to get you anywhere. Instead, it makes you look weak and makes her feel more guilty. Right now, give each other some space to heal and when there’s been some distance between the two of you, try talking to her then. In the meantime, get busy and be healthy.
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http://www.getherlovebacknow.com