what do you think is the best way to get your ex boyfriend back?
has anyone ever gotten dumped after being in a long serious relationship and then got back together? if so, what did you do to get them back? like what methods..eg.) don’t talk to them for 3 weeks…write them a letter…etc.
ok, im going to be totally truthful with you.
i was with my ex for two years and i even lived with him for almost a year when we were dating… and he broke up with me once and i moved out and then we got back together the day after that… and i was totally stoked, and then a couple months later he broke up with me again( i didn’t even do anything wrong) and i moved out and then we got back together and i had to unpack and everything and i was happy…. but i was starting to get scared that he wasn’t happy with me.. and we started fighting more and more, and we broke up again… and this time i gave him his space and moved out… a couple months later we started talking again and we were kinda friends with benefits…. and i thought if i did that he would take me back but he never did and then he went and got a new g.f… and i figured out everything happens for a reason… if he broke up with you then maybe he just wasn’t happy with you… and maybe you should leave it where it is… i know its hard and i know its going to hurt… some nights i still wake up screaming because it hurts so bad… but i knew that if we got back together he wwasn’tgoing to be happy and i was just going to be worried and stressed out all the time waiting for him to break up with me again..
here’s a quote i like:
you can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months, over- analyzing a situation: trying to put the pieces together. justifying what would’ve would’ve happened- or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on. -tupac
p.s in my experience when i wrote an ex a letter or something they took it as immature second grade not passing stuff, and they kinda just laughed at me.. i would say that if this is really what you want, then give him his space and send him a cute text or something that says "always thinking of you" or "missing you". and depending his reaction on that then either stop trying or if he seems to take it well just try to talk to him calmy. with out freaking out, or write him a letter… but don’t crowd him, guys tend to freak out when they loose their space… so just take it slow and calmly =) i really hope i helped. you can email me if you need more help♥
Fuck his best friend. Trust me i’v had it done it hurts.
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yess i broke up with my ex 3 times over a year and he asked me out after the first two times…. first of all act like you arent bothered and make him jealous by flirting with people hugging people infrount of him and then talk to him in a friendly way and maybe it’ll lead to him revealing he still likes you…:)
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don’t do that.Move on!
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It depends on the reason you got dumped. I don’t want to help you get back together with someone you love but will only end up hurting you. But i was in a 1 and a half year relationship but we had a fight. So the way we got back together:
I was on my way to the bus because school ended and we broke up about 2 days ago. And I had a note ready in my hand, unfortunetly i never got to give it to him. Instead he was walking with me, and he just suddenly spun me around and kissed me. I don’t know how that would help you, but maybe give you ideas. You can apologize… Or maybe write him a note… Kiss him<3… idk.
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My girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me two days before my birthday. It was wicked shitty for me but we tried staying friends afterwards. About 2 weeks later we hooked up and I spent the night in her room. It was such a mistake though because it just made things more awkward and we weren’t ready to be back together.
We’ve been separated for a few months and since we’re away from college on summer break I haven’t seen her at all. We don’t get along very well so I doubt we’ll ever get back together.
But the key is that you NEVER know what could happen! If it is meant to be with you and your ex it will happen. I think you need to try moving on and meeting other people. You could end up dating several other people and then someday get back with your ex. But don’t let your desire to be with him drag down your life, because honestly if he dumped you then he probably won’t want to be back with you for a long time.
Ok so to summarize: Move on with your life, but its always possible that you could end up with him again.
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College kid
Have I? Yes, twice. First I kept getting back with my husband who was abusing drugs and me and we just kept fighting – finally ended it for good. Second, I was fooling around on the internet and found my first love. I was able to get this address and phone number and I called him. He is now my husband. Since he dumped you, if I were you, I would be afraid of being dumped again by the same guy. I think you should move on and let time tell the story.
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ok, im going to be totally truthful with you.
i was with my ex for two years and i even lived with him for almost a year when we were dating… and he broke up with me once and i moved out and then we got back together the day after that… and i was totally stoked, and then a couple months later he broke up with me again( i didn’t even do anything wrong) and i moved out and then we got back together and i had to unpack and everything and i was happy…. but i was starting to get scared that he wasn’t happy with me.. and we started fighting more and more, and we broke up again… and this time i gave him his space and moved out… a couple months later we started talking again and we were kinda friends with benefits…. and i thought if i did that he would take me back but he never did and then he went and got a new g.f… and i figured out everything happens for a reason… if he broke up with you then maybe he just wasn’t happy with you… and maybe you should leave it where it is… i know its hard and i know its going to hurt… some nights i still wake up screaming because it hurts so bad… but i knew that if we got back together he wwasn’tgoing to be happy and i was just going to be worried and stressed out all the time waiting for him to break up with me again..
here’s a quote i like:
you can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months, over- analyzing a situation: trying to put the pieces together. justifying what would’ve would’ve happened- or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on. -tupac
p.s in my experience when i wrote an ex a letter or something they took it as immature second grade not passing stuff, and they kinda just laughed at me.. i would say that if this is really what you want, then give him his space and send him a cute text or something that says "always thinking of you" or "missing you". and depending his reaction on that then either stop trying or if he seems to take it well just try to talk to him calmy. with out freaking out, or write him a letter… but don’t crowd him, guys tend to freak out when they loose their space… so just take it slow and calmly =) i really hope i helped. you can email me if you need more help♥
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experience!♥