How can i get my belongings back from my ex?
My ex and i broke up in November, thing is she has some small items of mine that i want back, but i cant ring the house phone or go to the house cos her dad threatened me with the police last week, im kind of scared, what can i do?
To keep this civil, first try sending a letter….send it to her Dad, not to her. Tell him that she has some of your personal items, and you will need to list them, and you would like them returned. Tell him you will respect his wishes that you stay away, if he will agree to meet you at a neutral location and return your belongings. Tell him otherwise, you will have no choice but to get the police involved. List your phone number. Make a copy of the letter for yourself. Send him the letter, and give him a week to respond. If he doesn’t respond, or responds in a threatening manner, call the police and they will escort you to retrieve your property.
Well, if you’re scared to go back to the house, you may have to forfeit your small goods. You certainly can’t go waltzing into the house when she’s not home. If you don’t feel comfortable explaining the situation to her Dad or you can’t speak with her alone, I’m afraid you may be out of luck. Sorry, man.
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Ask Marge Simpson.
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Ask, and if this doesn’t work. Call the police yourself and ask them to escort you to the house to collect your personal items, because you are expecting trouble from your ex’s father.
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Go to the police and ask for their help. They should go with you to claim your items. Don’t be afraid, you have rights, too. Just hope she still has them!
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To keep this civil, first try sending a letter….send it to her Dad, not to her. Tell him that she has some of your personal items, and you will need to list them, and you would like them returned. Tell him you will respect his wishes that you stay away, if he will agree to meet you at a neutral location and return your belongings. Tell him otherwise, you will have no choice but to get the police involved. List your phone number. Make a copy of the letter for yourself. Send him the letter, and give him a week to respond. If he doesn’t respond, or responds in a threatening manner, call the police and they will escort you to retrieve your property.
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