Trick to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Want You Back – All You Need to Know to Make Her Chasing After You
If you’re wondering “how can I make my ex girlfriend want me back”, and everything you have tried so far has not worked for you. Here is a trick that will help her want you back again.
This trick might go against everything you thought would work in getting your ex girlfriend back. But really, as simple as this might be, most men screw it up because it is so counter-intuitive. How can you make her to want you back?
All you need to know do is to “reject her”. Mind bogglingly simple right? Concept is otherwise hard to grasp.
What happens when a girl rejects you and says “it’s just not working out” or something along those lines? It means she doesn’t want you anymore and for you to leave her alone right? Being rejected hurts and no one wants to be rejected.
Therefore that means if you reject her (after she has rejected you), technically she shouldn’t care and you both “should” get on with your life but in different directions.
Wrong! Humans are much too complicated for anything that clear cut to happen. Of course there are cases where that has happened (as there are exceptions to every rule).
But the truth is NO ONE likes to be rejected. Even if she has rejected you (as much as I hate using that word over and over again), she doesn’t want to be rejected herself. Now she might act as if she doesn’t care (basically doing what you’re doing), but this won’t last long if she cares for you AT ALL.
If after you reject her and you don’t hear from her for 6 months! Or something ridiculous like that (which believe me, that WON’T happen), then you know it’s over and she didn’t care about you that much to begin with.
However, if she ever cared or loved you at all, she won’t be able to stand the idea of you rejecting her. (Rejecting her = no contact or interest in contacting her). She’ll want to know, as we all would, why you’re behaving the way you are. She’ll want to be validated that she is still desired, because if she isn’t, then what she thought of the relationship wasn’t really want she thought at all!
This last statement will scare her! Scaring her will enable her to act and that means she’ll come chasing after you.
If it’s so simple why doesn’t everyone do this? Because most guys can’t stick with it but oftentimes lots of other variables come into play. Eg. when the opportunity to reunite arises, the guy is usually too stubborn to see it.
Word of warning why this won’t work:
- If you go overboard with the rejection and act as if you’re doing it just for revenge.
- If you are dishonest with her (and yourself) and treat her poorly just to have the upperhand.
- Deliberately ignore her, especially when she most needs you.
- Put too much emphasis on this strategy instead of working on yourself and why the relationship ended in the first place.
Remember this might get her back in the short-term but if you’re not willing to work on staying together, then it’s all quite meaningless.
If you’re serious about getting your ex girlfriend back and would be a proven step-by-step plan to win her back, head to Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back for the ultimate relationship help resource for men.
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Jake Fitzgerald
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Has anyone here made up a fake boyfriend/ girlfriend in order to get a boy/ girl from not chasing/ stalking u?
I’m just wondering who in here has done that? There’s this one girl who basically thinks I am the one for her, even though we haven’t even gone on a single date! i think she thinks I’m sweetest and nicest guy she’s ever met. I’ve told her it’s not meant to be, gave up so many excuses, but she still likes me. I can’t be mean a**hole guy b/c she already knows that’s not me. I’m thinking of making up this fake girl and saying i’m dating her, so that maybe she’ll go away.
i know it’s not good to lie, but anyone done this trick? And if so, can u share ur experience w/ me – and did it work???
Yes I have.
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oh yeah i did and nope, well kinda, however good luck man
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yea i made up a fake gf and the girl asked where did she live and i said in ILL. and it worked jus pick a diff. state if they ask or a diff town
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She doesn’t believe you because you’re a lousy liar. Why don’t you arrange an outing with you, her, and this "fake" girl and maybe then she’ll get the message.
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It’s not exactly the same situation, but there was this guy from work who I had a bit of a fling with over the summer. He told me that he was crazy about me and wanted us to have a relationship, but he moved away for uni, so I never saw him. I wasn’t crazy about him.
Then he text me randomly about 2 months later saying he was coming back for the weekend and if I wanted to meet up. I didn’t want to and he was desperate to meet me, so I said my "boyfriend" was meeting me. That cleared him off for good. (Thinking he was only looking for one thing though….)
Anyway…
It does work quite well, but with this girl I’m thinking it might not. Don’t lie to her. Just tell her straight that you are not interested in her in that way.
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yes i have when the "hey i dont like you like that, only as a friend" talk didnt work.
i guess some people are just clingy and dont fully understand.
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Yeah, it doesn’t always work tho. I’ve even had a guy friends (or once a random cute stranger) pretend we were together to deter the unwanted attention from the stalker.
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yeah, I’ve done that lol.I’m also kinda bad at being mean =/ I wouldn’t recommend it though, because she will be hurt if she finds out. Use it only as a last resort.
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look …you think that you’re a nice guy because you don’t want to tell her the truth that you are not interested? You are not.
You are also fooling yourself if somehow deep down you think you are doing this to protect her feelings but deep down you are probably afraid she might over react or whatever. You are being paranoid and conceited.
You can turn down a girl without being rude, insensitive or lacking class. Anyone whoever had a problem with someone getting upset is because they were rude and insensitive when they turned down someone. I have never ever had a woman feel disrespected when I turned her down. But I have met other guys who have had problems…and I know it’s how they did it.
Tell her…that you think she is really sweet but you could never be together. Also that you just can’t love her the way she deserves to be loved etc…etc. How hard is to say something similar?
Learn to be a man and tell the truth. I doubt she is stupid that she won’t comprehend a direct and truthful answer and I also doubt she is a mind reader who is able to figure out your stupid hints. Give her the benefit of the doubt and some respect. Respect her enough to tell her the truth to her face instead of whining on yahoo or telling other friends which will probably get back to her and offend her.
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I have.
It made the guy that stalked me for a date, leave me alone
I still see him every once and a while
And after a bit I told him and my "bf" broke up and i don’t want to go out with a guy anytime soon
And he hasn’t tried anything since =P
I felt bad because he really did seem to like me, but he didn’t stop when I told him I didn’t like him,so i thought it would be a nicer way for him
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ok.. i’ve done tat b4, to u knw who.. but trust me, it didnt really work… he would still text me n stuff, and gt even more angry.. like he was so ever rdy to pick fights with the fake bf.. he just wanted stuff his way… and i guess this is just the natural behaviour for evryone…. if u do that, she’ll see ur fake gf as her bitter enemy and she’ll get more agitated and wudnt hesitate going to extremes to get that fake gf outta ur life… meaning, since she doesnt knw ur gf personally, she would try evry way to impress u… like buy u more stuff, talk to u more, the more closer she’d wanna get to u, which means more stalking n chasing… so its clearly a bad idea buddy…
like u knw abt mine ryt… well, he’s alrdy attached and i cudnt handle all the drama with that fake bf, so i got rid of him (fak bf) and nw i realise that this guy is trying the best he can to make sure i dun get anothr guy.. like, i get wishes evry morning.. stuff like, ":gd morning baby.." which doesnt really bother me tat much, but u knw, it kinda gets u touched for tat moment and u cn see the hope in him tat he wants to get u back…. so i realised tat my biggest mistake was lying abt the fake bf, cos now he tries even harder… and doesnt wanna get away at all… he’s like one bloody leech, seriously..
my advice to u is, dun do it… it may seem like its working for a while, but u’re really gonna land urself in a pile of mess in the end… better way is tat u leave her as she is.. yea, she wud still be stalking u i knw, but with time, u’d be able to handle it, just like me
so dun worry that mich of getting her off ur back.. i used too worry like that too, but nw i’ve got used to it, and u wud too…
all the best!!
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experience — it’s a BIG word
yeah, it did happen to me.. there was this guy who likes me but I didnt like him.. So, I told him that I have a bf.. he was angry and ignored me for couple of days.. and I was ok with that. I did have a crush and we both like each other and I didnt want this guy to interfere. So, I told him the truth.
just be honest and tell her that you dont like her.. as you said its not good to lie.
" A harmful truth is better than a useful life" Thomas Mann
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