Should I get back together with my ex-boyfriend?
Two Fridays ago, a guy I didn’t know very well asked me out. I said yes. I talked to him all weekend on facebook. He kept telling me how pretty I was. I felt really happy with him as my boyfriend. He promised that he’d talk to me on Monday, but he fell ill. That evening, he said he was sorry and that he’d like to take me to lunch the next day. He told me he planned to kiss me and I got excited. 
Unfortunately, there were a lot of rumors going around about him. Apparently he told other girls he liked them. None of my friends liked the fact I was going out with him because some claim he’s a pervert or a player.
I broke up with him that night. I told him that I was not prepared to go out with him, and that there was too much drama. At first he just said "bye" and he hung up the phone. That night, he begged for me back while we were talking online. He admitted to not liking me very much in the beginning. What really made me angry was when he told me "I dont care if your not pretty, I just want to make this work." That was the moment I logged off of IM. I knew that if he didn’t think I was perfect, he didn’t really care.
Throughout the week he asked out one girl and gave another girl a daimond necklace.
Last night he wanted to go out with me again. I told him that I wasn’t sure. He accused me of simply giving into my friends. I trust my friends, and I listened to them because I knew myself he was a player. But now half of me wants to give him a second chance.
What should I do ?
You will know you should be with someone when you personally value and respect them for who they are, and how they act, not how they make you feel when they are intetionally trying to talk their way into your pants. Half of you wants to give him a second chance because he is attractive and you enjoy his attentions, not because you can see yourself with him. Can you even picture him as a supportive boyfriend or does it seem like a pipe dream?
Besides he insulted you! wtf is that!? He only insulted you because you are rejecting him. It is something you should be aware of,, his poor wounded pride I mean. He’s not going to tell you you are so pretty one day, and then that you are not pretty the next, if he acctually values you for who you are. He is talking out of his ass. He is NOT worth another minute of your time. You are right to trust your friends, that’s what they are there for.
No, and I’m sure you already knew that! It’s not worth the time and drama.
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You will know you should be with someone when you personally value and respect them for who they are, and how they act, not how they make you feel when they are intetionally trying to talk their way into your pants. Half of you wants to give him a second chance because he is attractive and you enjoy his attentions, not because you can see yourself with him. Can you even picture him as a supportive boyfriend or does it seem like a pipe dream?
Besides he insulted you! wtf is that!? He only insulted you because you are rejecting him. It is something you should be aware of,, his poor wounded pride I mean. He’s not going to tell you you are so pretty one day, and then that you are not pretty the next, if he acctually values you for who you are. He is talking out of his ass. He is NOT worth another minute of your time. You are right to trust your friends, that’s what they are there for.
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this guy is a loser and bad news. you need to find a nice guy like myself. he doesn’t think your pretty and he doesn’t like your friends, he is only after one thing and once he gets it, he’s gone. You can do much better.
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