My heart says we should get back together but my mind says not to?
Well, me and my ex are like..still in love. Well, the story is SOO long and complicated to explain.
But before i asked him out i was about to give up on him, and when we go together i never felt any sparks when we kissed and he just didn’t seem like someone for me. like i guess my feelings died during the relationship and i kept questioning my feelings for him. i wasn’t sure. and i was trying to make myself think i loved him..and i even told him i did… so i wouldn’t hurt him..but i knew if i waited any longer, things would turn out even worse. so i ended it.
however, he’s so sweet and sensitive, and he said he would never leave me/cheat on me. and when talk he still says that.
we still talk to eachother like we’re together.
but lately, my feelings have been getting stronger. and i’m not even questioning myself this time. and i said maybe we should get some space for now. but i fear he’ll find someone else and it’ll be to late for me, and i’ll be hanging by a limb..and it’d take a long, long time to get over him.., but at the sametime its not fair to keep him waiting. then again, i don’t trust myself and i’m afraid we’ll go through a painful breakup again. and i really don’t want to see him so hurt again. :c i’m afraid these feelings i’m feeling is a hormonal thing..
idk..its confusing. :S some advice maybe?..cause i feel like i should go out and live the last of my teenage life, plus early adult years, and go out with different guys so i won’t feel like i missed out on something, and end up being unfaithful if i focus on one guy for so long and being so young..plus..he’s only my first love.
you know what i mean?..thats what my mind says..it also says me and him should keep in touch so maybe we can go back in the future. i would love to go back to him someday. but i’m just not sure it should be now/anytime soon. i’ve talked about that to him too. i’ve talked about all of this with him too..
my heart says to get back together..but that risks a lot more, i think. :S more stupid heartache.
idk. i just need advice!! i don’t want to wreck my life or his! plus, he’s super attached.
Even if you feel really strong? D:
hmm. i guess i’ll take that into consideration. :]
its not because its not new anymore. when it was new, things just died. :\ but something was still there. idk
i think i’ll give it another shot.
now that i feel something. :] maybe it’ll be different.
hmm. only time will tell. thanks guys. good night. 
Ufff!!!!!! Cant u understand he is d true love for u? look when we get a new toy we like it bcz its new. but with time it becomes older and older. Its not new now, we dont feel that excitement before, we feel that its not new now, so put it in dustbin and lets go for another new interesting thing. But wait, u r leaving ur all memories, u spend with it. its ur boyfrnd, he takes so care of u, he loves u a lot, he thinks that u r d only girl in his life, u r all for him. And u r getting boared bcz he is now not so NEW and u know almost all about him. So u dont got the Xcitement. Do u have any idea , that how many girls dont get that love, that u get? they all r looking for a true love and u, stupeed rejecting a true honest love. Go back now. And never b seperate stupeed!!!!
Exes are exes for a reason. You having that doubt already shows it’s just not meant to be. It’s chemistry but it’s not strong enough to last. And trying again will probably just make things worse down the road.
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You are clearly not ready to settle down into a serious relationship with this guy. And that’s fine — you’re young and this is a good time to date around and figure out what you really do want in a guy. So just tell him that you’re not ready to get into a serious relationship right now, so you think you should both be free to date other people. If he finds someone else while you’re dating around, then that’s what happens. Timing is everything in a relationship — some people are just ready to settle down sooner than others. If you’re not ready, then it’s not fair to either of you to continue this current relationship.
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I wouldn’t get back with him. You’re just like me. Right before you guys go out you have these feelings for him because you want him but once you get him and he’s your bf you’re just like yeahh okay we go out and you lose feelings for him. You llike the chase.. you’re just going to go with him again but then lose feelings for him. i wouldn’t go back out with him.
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I recently got back with an ex of mine, cause i felt the same.
Everything seems to be there, like the sparks and stuff like that…
But i realised something, we don’t have much in common.
And i tried to introduce him to anime, FMA the best ever, and he totally ignored the fact that i had until i told him i wasn’t sure about us, cause we had nothing in common.
Now he’s trying extra hard and actually watching it without me, but i feel i could have a more meaningful relationship.
It’s completely up to you, personally, i’d say to leave it, cause now that i realise i made a mistake, and my feelings were wrong, i have to end it.
And i’m not entirely sure how i’m going to do that.
But if you think it’s the most meaningful relationship that’s available to you, go for it.
Hope you sort it out.
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Sounds like he’s needy, insecure and is begging you to stay with him. He says he’ll never leave you. Say that sentence out loud to yourself. That so unreasonable, so desperate. He thinks that if he has you, he could stop looking for a mate for the rest of his life. He’ll never leave you!
He’s a sweet guy, but you’re going to have to be the mature one and break it off with him. Don’t be talking and seeing him after you break up either. That tells him that you really didn’t mean what you said and that he still has a chance. When you do that and they actually don’t have a chance, that is mean on your end.
Just be honest, follow through and don’t run into the very next guys arms that you happen to find. Give yourself some time away from the b/f game. Center yourself in what’s important to you and your family. Then you’ll be confident in yourself when you decide to get back into the dating scene.
Good luck!!!
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Ufff!!!!!! Cant u understand he is d true love for u? look when we get a new toy we like it bcz its new. but with time it becomes older and older. Its not new now, we dont feel that excitement before, we feel that its not new now, so put it in dustbin and lets go for another new interesting thing. But wait, u r leaving ur all memories, u spend with it. its ur boyfrnd, he takes so care of u, he loves u a lot, he thinks that u r d only girl in his life, u r all for him. And u r getting boared bcz he is now not so NEW and u know almost all about him. So u dont got the Xcitement. Do u have any idea , that how many girls dont get that love, that u get? they all r looking for a true love and u, stupeed rejecting a true honest love. Go back now. And never b seperate stupeed!!!!
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