Simple Stupid Plan to Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back
Getting your ex girlfriend back feels like a daunting task, especially if you’re confused and unsure what direction to go. Somewhere along the road of your blissful relationship, you stumbled upon a roadblock. Then a few more came crashing down and before you knew it, your girlfriend has up and left you, complaining about every bump and obstacle that had come stacked your way.
No one said it would be easy, but that doesn’t mean it needs to be complicated. Simple plans are the most effective but the act of executing them is where people most trip up. So here is the simple stupid plan to getting your ex girlfriend back…
Simple action plan #1:
Snap out of that I’m-the-victim/defeatist attitude that plagues most rejectees after being dumped. Whether it was your fault or her fault that your relationship has ended, get it into you that the past is done and there’s little point in dwelling on what could have been.
Tip: Trying to reverse the break up by compensating through apologizing and promising you’ll change might seem like the most logical and common-sense thing to do. But if she’s standing firm and rejecting all your moves, ditch the poor-me approach; your ex girlfriend wants a man, not a crybaby.
Simple action plan #2:
No matter what she says or what you think she wants, what she REALLY wants is a man who has conviction and confidence within himself. If you find yourself lacking all self-esteem and you’re not sure why she would even come back to you, the conscious part of you wants her back but the unconscious part is fighting against it.
What sort of result do you think you will get? Know that the confident guy who doesn’t need anyone is already within you, bring him out by remembering times in your life when you were confident AND alone and life was just fine!
Simple action plan #3:
You need to align the conscious and the subconscious part of you so it’s helping you get the girl you want instead of pushing her away. If you’re confident and secure in the knowledge that you don’t need her to be happy, not much of what she says should harm or worry you.
For example, your ex girlfriend hasn’t called for weeks, the sad, depressed and needy guy will have cracked and tried calling her to see how she is doing. The confident and secure guy will notice but he is too busy living and enjoying himself via other activities to care about calling. Likewise, the confident guy might also consider the notion that, if he has been too busy to call, perhaps she has been too.
Tip: Alter the meaning of whatever bad thing happens to you, whether its your ex-girlfriend not calling, seeing another guy or only wanting to be friends. If you don’t let those things bother you, and you get on with your life, your ex girlfriend will notice and be extremely curious WHY you’re reacting this way.
Why would acting like you don’t care help you get your ex girlfriend back? Believe it or not, your ex girlfriend wants you to want her. No one likes to be rejected, and even though she has rejected you, deep down she still wants you to want her.
By “rejecting” her but doing it in a subtle way, it will make her want to find out why and get her chasing after you. Believe me this works wonders. Girls love getting attention off guys, they love to know they’re wanted but at the same time untouchable. Use this to your advantage.
If you’re serious about getting your ex girlfriend back and you think you can handle what it takes, head over to Get Her Back now and obtain the step-by-step plan that is changing men’s minds about women from around the world.
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Jake Fitzgerald
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How do I get a Girlfriend, What do you think of me? (Part 2 of my question)?
I’m Single and 14…I HATE it….Do girls like a Guitarist?
…A Metal Guitarist? Hmm…
My Description and stuffs:
between 4"10 – 5"2 , somewhere around there.
85-89 pounds.
No upper body strength….
a light 6-pack…
Dark Long Hair…
Very Cute.
Mexican/Polish/Ameican???
Smart…
Depressing usually and very negative…
Rather Shy and Awkward…
EXTREMELY OVER HONEST!
An Atheist.
Computer Addict…
Mostly Nocturnal….
Loves:
Cheesecake,Strawberries,Demons,The Colors Black and Red,
Halo 3,Rockband,Rockband 2,GH3,GHWT,IMVU.
Bands:
TOOL,Nine Inch Nails,Fall Out Boy,Simple Plan,Sum 41,Rammstein,Dragonforce,Metallica,Megad… Malmsteen,JerryC,SLAYER,Led Zeplin,Marilyn Manson,LVL70ETC,The Outlaws,Daft Punk,Dir En Gray, Many more.
Other stuff:
Sleeping, Developing, Making New Riffs, Drawing.
Hates:
Religion,French Kissing,Twilight,Vampires,Life,Cold Weather,Gravity,
Diablo (the game),Pink,Drooling dogs(also im allergic to them sorry),
Politics kind of,Adults who are very stupid and completely misplaced in life at the job they have,Canned Foods,Wood,Pencils,Motorcycles, Body Piercings,Deep Water(oceans),Being Alone..,Gangsters/Chicka’s(THE MOST)…Screamo music and Country Music.
So What do You think Of Me?
Be as harsh as you may please, as long as your honest and Help me be a more…Attractive person.
And no I’m not satanic and don’t think of me as much of a dark music Gothic person or something. no.
and this is what i pretty much look like:
http://i259.photobucket.com/albums/hh291/AdeptRougeHaseo/Random/EmO14.jpg
http://i259.photobucket.com/albums/hh291/AdeptRougeHaseo/Random/IMG000008.jpg
http://i259.photobucket.com/albums/hh291/AdeptRougeHaseo/Random/IMG000005.jpg
http://i259.photobucket.com/albums/hh291/AdeptRougeHaseo/Random/EmOooo000018.jpg
So yeah. and I recommend you look at em all ^^"
anyways, back to my trek of getting a girlfriend. lol…
And I’m not Anorexic!!!
So all in all im pretty much a very…Artistic person. everything i do is productive and very creative. I’m a Very…Adept and Elaborately Clever Boy….so….yeah….
a huge good thing about me is im extremely honest. and I KNOW how to make someone feel more loved than ever.
Give me your opinion of me and be as harsh as you’d like really.
*~{Joshy}~*
all i read is ur 14 GIVE IT TIME. DONT RUSH INTO THINGS
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IM A GUY
K, DESTROY the hair, dude you look like a freakin emo, nobody likes that..
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don’t be negative, or depressed. most girls hate that. (:
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I stopped reading at the negative and the 90 pounds. i love people who can play instruments but i don’t want someone that much smaller than me. I say lift some, and try to be positive all the time!
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Okay
You sounds WAY too emo, you sound depressed and negative, you LOOK emo
With your descriptions: YOU seem too skinny , to sad, too short
NOT MY TYPE.
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You’re really young, once you get older your face will change a lot. You are a cute kid, don’t feel rushed about dating just yet. You’ll get there. Pull your hair back so everyone can see that cute face!
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i think ur kinda cute!
i think you should be more outgoing though do random things and get out of ur "shyness"
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well, since you told me to be totally honest
You seem like a downer, and kind of emo.
Your description of yourself makes me think you’re an emo poser and just not fun to be around.
I looked at your picture, man you can’t even see your eyes
Ok, maybe its just cause Im not into that stuff, but I’m 14 and I wouldn’t date you. Totally honest man
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OMG I WOULD LIKE TOTALLY DATE YOU…dude if girls dont like you they are missing out…DUDE YOU SEEM SOO COOL..i like love F.O.B and i love the guitarist thing and the drawing omg you seem soo cool and i think your cute….girls should love you…if they dont they are missing out on a good thing…you should be proud of who you are…yea you shouldnt be so depressed and you should rush things but really you seem nice and a sweet sweet guy..trust me i kno im 14..in 9th grade and well just dont rush it…really tho you seem like an amazing kid and well you seriously shouldnt be so depressed
but you should be ur self…some girls dont like the ‘emo’ look…and some girls (like me) love it… i love your hair and really you should just be yourself… ^_^
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You look kind of wierd, you also look like a female.. and you’re unattractive (no homo).. that could be your problem.
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First of all your pretty young so don’t fret. I didn’t get my first gf until I was 15. And second, you would probably have a better chance of getting with a girl if you didn’t dress like an emo. The hoody with the bangs across the forehead….please don’t tell me you wear "girl pants" too. If you ditch that retarded looking crapy you would probably get a girl friend no problem.
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sounds cute, to me. All girls r different. Im a girlie girl, tomboy girl. lol. Im a compy=uter addict too. 0.0 i dont relly play sports……hehe… i dove metel, maybe eyes set to kill, i play guitair, electronic, my brother plays auototisc and electronic.i play any new fighting game on da computer (free downloads lol)halo3 awesome. i have bunches of stories (oops too much about MYSELF. ugh sorry.)I love to hug… btw, where did ur eyes go lol idc…. i do the same thing around my name too! i:
~*Kiara*~ >,…,< i luv to read.
i hate pink. ugh. weirdest color ever. love to draw eyes. creepy kind of….0.0 lol. (choose the best answer SOON!)
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um 13 years old
wow lots of info.
you sound like you might be cute.. but you also sound very negative. that is a BIG turn off.
If you don’t like twilight then there is not a good chance of you getting a girlfriend no matter what age. lol just saying it will be harder if you don’t like it =P
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Ok here are a few reasons why i think your single..
- Your hair… it’s ok to have long hair, it can be attractive, but you can’t even see your eyes it’s stupid, i mean grrr it gets me angry… you obviously can’t see yourself in the mirror because of that mop hanging over your eyes but trust me… MAJOR TURN OFF!!
- In the one picture that i can actualy see some of your face, you look like a 10yr old girl, so maybe lose the girl hair??
- Your so negative.. you hate life, your depressing? if you are these things then how the hell do you think you can make someone feel loved if you hate life? Negativity and depression is a big NO NO unless you want some gothic chick who will eventually kill herself to sacrafice her body to satan or because you are so god damn negative and depressing she couldn’t take anymore of your crap so she hangs herself!
GROW UP… CUT YOUR HAIR… STOP MOANING!!!!!!
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well first of all your hate list is bigger than all your other ones, and no girl hates french kissing and your totally contradicting everything your saying. the music your into is like hard dark stuff and the colors red and black and love demons yet you hate vampires. you seem to just not know who you are yet so you shouldnt have a girl until you figure it out. and you hate extreamly stupid things like canned food and wood?! come on now your just looking for things to hate. and you hate LIFE ! ! come on man thats a little stupid. thats why you hate absolutely everything girls like. most guys dont like some things girl like but they can stand them. and nobody likes a guy that is awkward and depressing all the time.
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well…u do seem like a very nice guy but in my opinion i would like u more as a really good friend that i could trust
sorry…but honestly u dont look like a 14 year old u look like a 10 year old…so maybe thats y girls dont go out with u yet…but eventually u will find a girl that will like u 4 who u r…sorry
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Your cute and you seem like a great person, i’d go out with you
Girls love musicians and artistic guys, and guys with cool hair like yours.
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13 year old girl
i hate french kissing. every girl is different!
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