When is it Too Late to Get Back Together With Your Ex Girlfriend
It’d be easy to reassure you that no it’s never too late, that you can get her back no matter how much time has past. As you know, time does need to be taken into consideration, and it can mean getting her back now or never been given the chance. So when is it too late to Get Back Together with your ex girlfriend back? Is it too late now?
The truth is however, there is no real answer to this question. The sooner you have an overall strategy to help you, the more chance you have to get her back. However that doesn’t mean to say, there’s no hope left even if you don’t do any of that.
We have all heard of stories of couples getting back together years or decades after the break up. Not to say that could be you, but it’s to prove a point that time can either work for you or against you.
To ensure you’re making the most of what you have right now, the best thing to do is get a strategy in place and follow it through. Give it your all to get her back if that is what you want, and if it’s not meant to be, either by her choice or yours, there will be no regrets and you can move on knowing you’ve tried all you could.
What happens in the future will happen. There is never a set strategy that is 100% sure to bring her back. That’s because the chance of her coming back is equally up to you AND her together. The only thing you can do is take control of your own life and be mindful of how to interpret things as they come to you.
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Jake Fitzgerald
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Is it ok to stay business associates with someone you once cheated on your girlfriend with?
My boyfriend cheated on me with a client of his (he is a tax preparer) a few years ago. No sex. She was sent to him by another client, and after their first meeting they started talking personally on the phone and hit it off. I remember their first meeting so I know when this started, and I found out within a week that they talked 3 times for about 3 hours each in the following week. I saw it on our cell bill online. I confronted him immediately, asked if there was something "there" and if he wanted to date her (I had been his first and only girlfriend following his divorce). He said he wasn’t sure, maybe. So, I broke up with him. They went on a date to the movies following that, he admits they kissed in the movie theater, but he said "nothing was there", she was a "whacko" and not for him, and he realized he really loved me and really didn’t need or want to date.
Things settled down and we got back together a few months later. He seemed to get that he acted stupidly, and that I suffered major hurt. It was the worst heartache of my life, and I threw up for a few days, followed by barely being able to eat the next week. Although I tried to shelter my children from this, they caught wind of it–mommy was always crying and exhausted. So, this really impacted me badly! Not to mention, I had also come out of a tough divorce and was recovering from that (like him) and was fragile.
The thing that bothers me is that he STILL does her taxes every year, and i know he has talked to her about personal stuff, too. I know it takes like a few hours or so. BUT, I strongly feel that, if you cheat with someone, you should cut them out of your life if you are lucky enough to keep your original relationship. He refuses to drop her as a client, saying that I am making too much of this, it was nothing, it was 4 years ago, we’re now getting engaged, he would never ever do that again he has what he needs in me, and he still thinks she’s a whacko.
I guess I should feel better about it, BUT I feel that, if you are in a serious, committed relationship, you should honor the other person’s boundaries and needs. I feel like he’s choosing her over my happiness, and only because he says that I shouldn’t be able to "control" who he has as a client or not. It causes me great stress and worry EVERY year (not to mention in between) wondering if I know all of it, if he is lying to me, and wondering if he would ever be attracted to her or not. Or, if we were having a rough time, would he go to her? This is made worse by the fact that I don’t live near him and she lives 30 minutes from him.
Let me add to this that, about a year ago I found a text message between him and her where he asked her to go skiing to a local mountain on christmas because they were both alone without their kids and she was the only person he knew in that circumstance (I live 4 hours away). He didn’t tell me about it–I found out about it via his cell phone hte following week. She didn’t go, and he later said that was a stupid thing to ask, BUT that was only a year ago. I broke up with him AGAIN after that. A few months later, we were back together and I was certain he finally "heard" me.
Well, tax season came–he did her taxes AGAIN. That was last year (2009).
Here we are in 2010. He just did her taxes (this time, according to him, she just sent in her stuff and he sent it back) again. We are getting engaged in a few months and he is moving here. But, this still bothers me. Especially since he is keeping his tax firm (he owns it) there, and will be working partly from there when he sees his kids e/o weekend, anyway, so it is not a total, complete give up everything kind of move.
SO: Should he drop her as a client?
He doesn’t need the money from her at all. He does very well financially.
A few years ago I actually handed him $500 (what he said her tax return fee is) and said–"there ya go, you have your $500, now that should take care of it, right?" Obviously he didn’t take it, but he added that "its not just $500, its the other clients she will send me." A year later, asked him "how many clients did she send?" ZERO. "Great, now you can drop her." Nope.
He claims that I am trying to just control and bully him and that I can’t tell him who he can have as a client, and that this would open up the flood gates to my telling him who he can and can’t do business with.
He doesn’t see her as a threat to his biz rep–she’s not whako in that way.
Mind you–i am NOT like that. He has many women clients, works with women, and none of that bothers me AT ALL. The problem is THIS particular woman and the emotional upset this causes me, not to mention mental–here I am on yahoo at 1am!!!
Yes, he should drop her. Getting involved with her made her more than just a client, and made his interactions with her a subject on which you deserve to have input. Whatever he’s earning from doing her this service doesn’t justify the mental anguish you’re put through every time they re-establish contact. And if she’s really crazy, then she’s a potential liability to him personally and professionally…though maybe part of the reason he’s reluctant to drop her is because he’s scared of her trashing his reputation. Tell him that you’re happy to help him try and drum up new business, or stand behind him if she tries to retaliate somehow, but unless he considers her less replaceable than you, she needs to go.
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