Relationship Advice: Breaking Up : How to Get Over a Breakup
The hardest part of getting over a breakup is the coping with the void, but spending time with friends and family can help. Get over a breakup with tips from a relationship specialist in this free video about advice for ending relationships.
Expert: Joe Cuenco
Contact: www.married4ever.com
Bio: Joe Cuenco is the author of “Married For 5,000 Years,’”a research book that analyzes marriage presenting sociological, cultural and environmental factors.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz
Duration : 0:2:9
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guys ive had to …
guys ive had to suffer from a breakup just yesterday and 2day was meant to be our 2 months, and then tommorrow would be valentines, it kills me so much and i feel as though i cant live without this person, because he was so so so different and special compared to any other guys, all guys that ive dated had either been or some retard this one made me feel so special, he was so affectionate and so caring, i cant cope, need help to get over it, i cant stop thinking about our memories.
my boyfriend broke …
my boyfriend broke up with me not long ago. this weekend is valentine’s day and i feel like theres still a chance that i can get him back. i really need to know what guys/men expect to hear from their girfriend beside sorry. he is a very nice man and a guy like him only come once in awhile in life time.
No problem….ill …
No problem….ill send you the bill.
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^__^ Thanks x
^__^ Thanks x
University heh, i …
University heh, i left my girl shortly after getting in university too. It demand’s so much time and effort along with work and day 2 day business like groceries, no time is left for the relationship.
Youll get over it and the next guy you get (if not just a rebound guy, which is not recommanded) will make you forget about it and fill the void.
Its ok, ask everyone around if they ever had a breakup, everyone has, and no one died from it.
There are worst things in life, itll be ok dont worry.
Thanks for the …
Thanks for the reply
I know, I suppose you’re right… its so hard not being friends with him seeing as we were friends a lot longer than being in the relationship… I’m only 19 and I need to live a little but if he wasnt miles away in uni we would still be together!! haha The world just dosnt work… Its broke
Crossing her in the …
Crossing her in the subway and having to talk to her me up , not in front of her, but home.
Relationships create feeling of bonding that is so strong, when it breaks you cant imagine living whitout it and you start remembering little moments, and wonder if you made a bad move leaving her since you shared so much.
When it breaks, its cause being in was more painfull then leaving, not meant to be, so dont torture yourself getting a small dose of connection here and there, it wont help
Bad idea to be …
Bad idea to be friends.
I was with my girl for 5 years, and i decided it didnt work anymore, and it truly did not. I know she wanted to be friends, and it can seem like a good idea sometimes, but it is not. Only thing it will do is hurt both of you, we broke up 4 times during our 5 years, and the first 3 times we stayed friends, all it does when things dont work is cause even more torture.
Its really best to move on. You have to get BUSY dont just sit home and think about it all the time.
me and my bf broke …
me and my bf broke up 2 weeks ago… we were together for two years… and man the best thing to do is not to be friends… its killing me right now knowing that he could go with anyine…
we were mutual in the whole break up thing… its turned into a long term relationship after he moved to university, and it was really hard… he wants to be friends and I so badly do too.. but if we’re ever going to get over eachother we can’t.. but I want too… its such a hard decision :’(
I agree completely …
I agree completely andy19678,
If you are in the begining phase of a breakup I don’t believe it’s helpful to start finding flaws in yourself. You have enough to deal with and plenty of time to work on yourself. It’s not easy but think of yourself as lucky for the opportunity to start fresh agian, no matter how old you are consider yourself a newborn with a new chance in life, Thats what you were before your ex and thats what you are again.
don’t dude…I’ve …
No offense to women but you’re cruel 
don’t dude…I’ve been single for 7 months and I still have dreams about my ex….as a matter of fact I will go thru old pics of us and feel sad and bad and all have all those emotions but in a way it’s not good to do so but then again it helps so it’s really almost like you’re tearing yourself apart. I suggest go out and socialize with new people…make new friends, get a new hobby…fu#k that b$%ch.
man i dnt no wat to …
man i dnt no wat to do me nd my gf broke up today because we never hang out its because shes always busy wit her friends so we ended it but i cant stop thinking about her at all nd it hurts idk wat to do i want her bak but idk
Hi mate, just came …
Hi mate, just came on here to watch some music vids as getting ready for new years party tonight, it’s been a few months now, and to be honest mate, i still think about her now and again but i could not be any better mate, it gets easyier honestly. i can get any better, and hoping the new year will bring much more
@Dilly91 hey man …
@Dilly91 hey man my gf broke up wit me 3 days ago , its very hard to cope so it is , well u posted dis comment 2 months ago , how are tings goin 4 u now?
That’s pretty slack.
That’s pretty slack.
people … dont do …
people … dont do myspace. wow it never works!!
dont stayas friends …
dont stayas friends itl hurt you more!!! dont do it… i hope im not being a hypocrite.. because im going thru the same thng..
I find that no …
I find that no matter what you do its not a run that you can ever sprint through if you get what I mean. Its something that you have to ride out. I even got a replacement for my girlfriend straight afterwards once. It didn’t do me wonders at all to be honest..
“i know how you …
“i know how you feel mate, mine broke up with me 3 days ago
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losers.
I know how you feel …
I know how you feel bro,
I broke up with mine today
i know how you feel …
i know how you feel mate, mine broke up with me 3 days ago
post 1. ive been …
post 1. ive been throught a few break ups and in time self evaluation is good but in the early days we r hurting enough and i dont think we should bring ourselfs down even more by looking at our flaws. Instead as hard as it is ive found looking at THEIR flaws is much more theraputic..its hard when u r still in love with them but they r not in love with u and have hurt you..its ok to see their faults and decide that they r not good enough for you
same for me.. but …
same for me.. but you just need to fight threw it.
And you have it …
And you have it worse, my girl didn’t break up with me for another..i feel real bad for you man, i’m going through some serious heart aches, but i can now imagine what you must be going through especially if you loved your girlfriend with all your heart, kind of like i did..and they ended up just you over..
We got the same …
We got the same situation, dude. my girl broke off with me 2 days ago, today was our like 1st month together.. i was really close to her before i was with her, she told me EVERYTHING. i was like her best guy friend. and 2 days ago she told me she wasn’t sure if she could think of me as her boyfriend, because she always thought of me as her bestest friend, or a brother to her. and she told me we could still be best friends, but honestly, i don’t think it will ever feel the same as before. </3 =(