Comments on: Save Your Marriage Before It’s Too Late http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/ Serious People Take Action! Tue, 30 Aug 2011 01:59:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Sandy C http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3102 Sandy C Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:18:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3102 I think you've answered your own question already. Why prolong a marriage that already sounds like it's over? It's terrible he is in the situation he is in, but it does not sound like he will change anytime soon, and why would you want your daughter growing up with such a bad influence? Don't worry about sounding selfish or materialistic. Just do what's best for you and your daughter. <br><b>References : </b><br> I think you’ve answered your own question already. Why prolong a marriage that already sounds like it’s over?

It’s terrible he is in the situation he is in, but it does not sound like he will change anytime soon, and why would you want your daughter growing up with such a bad influence?

Don’t worry about sounding selfish or materialistic. Just do what’s best for you and your daughter.
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]]> By: aprils517 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3101 aprils517 Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:15:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3101 You have two children on your hands, its time to lose one and you know which one. he's a loser and has been ever since you got married, maybe he got married so he would have someone to take care of him. get rid of him while your still young. I had a man like that and he ruined my credit that I worked so long to keep good. No man is worth the headache he's giving you. Good Luck April<br><b>References : </b><br> You have two children on your hands, its time to lose one and you know which one. he’s a loser and has been ever since you got married, maybe he got married so he would have someone to take care of him. get rid of him while your still young. I had a man like that and he ruined my credit that I worked so long to keep good. No man is worth the headache he’s giving you. Good Luck April
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]]> By: kitha1215 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3100 kitha1215 Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:13:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3100 I do believe the saying is , "FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE".......~rolls eyes~<br><b>References : </b><br> I do believe the saying is , "FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE"…….~rolls eyes~
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]]> By: Megamom08 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3099 Megamom08 Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:11:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3099 Hey i know how you feel my husband has really struggled to keep a job in the 17 yrs we have been married, but leaving him would make things worse imagine his guilt if you pulled away from him, he keeps trying because of you and your child, I have been a stay at home mom since having kids and it has been worth it, i just keep supporting him all the way,one problem we have seen in all his life of struggling to make a living is that he hasn;t had a degree, we have moved over 20 times and lived in 4 different states to get or lives in order, we have finally gotten into the right situation, and have decided to go back to school and get his degree that he regrets not getting 20 yrs ago. He is going to be a Teacher. I have sacrificed alot myself don't get new clothes very often myself my kids come first,we have left everything we own behind and started over, so i know how you feel. Just be there for him and Love him, there is more to love and marriage then alot of money. Remember the reason you wanted him in the first place. Go with your heart and ask God for guidance. Good Luck!! <br><b>References : </b><br> Hey i know how you feel my husband has really struggled to keep a job in the 17 yrs we have been married, but leaving him would make things worse imagine his guilt if you pulled away from him, he keeps trying because of you and your child, I have been a stay at home mom since having kids and it has been worth it, i just keep supporting him all the way,one problem we have seen in all his life of struggling to make a living is that he hasn;t had a degree, we have moved over 20 times and lived in 4 different states to get or lives in order, we have finally gotten into the right situation, and have decided to go back to school and get his degree that he regrets not getting 20 yrs ago. He is going to be a Teacher. I have sacrificed alot myself don’t get new clothes very often myself my kids come first,we have left everything we own behind and started over, so i know how you feel. Just be there for him and Love him, there is more to love and marriage then alot of money. Remember the reason you wanted him in the first place. Go with your heart and ask God for guidance. Good Luck!!

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]]> By: criolla80 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3098 criolla80 Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:09:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3098 Wow. When I read the heading to your answer, I was ready to say,"What sort of woman won't stick by her man during hardship?" Then, I read the rest of your question and I realize that there is no reason for you to stick around in the marriage. He is obviously not applying himself and will only drag you down with him. You are headed towards a successful career..you need to have a successful man by your side as well. And although money doesn't equate success, it does pay the bills. Why have the two parent household if only one of you is contributing? Then, to make matters 1,000 times worse, you and he don't have an intimate relationship. There is nothing left (or was there ever) between the two of you. You have a child but that's no reason to endure unhappiness forever and ever. Maybe you saw potential in this man. It's possible that he told you he would change and become a move driven individual. However, he has proven that he will never be more than what he is at this moment..a loser that cannot keep a job or keep his woman happy. Start making moves to get your life back on track.<br><b>References : </b><br> Wow.

When I read the heading to your answer, I was ready to say,"What sort of woman won’t stick by her man during hardship?" Then, I read the rest of your question and I realize that there is no reason for you to stick around in the marriage. He is obviously not applying himself and will only drag you down with him. You are headed towards a successful career..you need to have a successful man by your side as well. And although money doesn’t equate success, it does pay the bills. Why have the two parent household if only one of you is contributing?

Then, to make matters 1,000 times worse, you and he don’t have an intimate relationship. There is nothing left (or was there ever) between the two of you. You have a child but that’s no reason to endure unhappiness forever and ever.

Maybe you saw potential in this man. It’s possible that he told you he would change and become a move driven individual. However, he has proven that he will never be more than what he is at this moment..a loser that cannot keep a job or keep his woman happy.

Start making moves to get your life back on track.
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]]> By: Joy http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3097 Joy Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:07:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3097 Maybe your husband had some job training in something he likes he could keep a job, Sounds like he might have some self disciple problems and self esteem issues. Maybe if he thought you were leaving he would do better. Maybe time apart would be good for both of you and may be what it would take for him to get serious about a job and keeping it. If you don't love him then your fighting a loosing battle. All the money in the world will not make you happy. Maybe you need to just explain how you feel and that you need some time apart to get your finances back on board.<br><b>References : </b><br> Maybe your husband had some job training in something he likes he could keep a job, Sounds like he might have some self disciple problems and self esteem issues.

Maybe if he thought you were leaving he would do better. Maybe time apart would be good for both of you and may be what it would take for him to get serious about a job and keeping it.

If you don’t love him then your fighting a loosing battle. All the money in the world will not make you happy. Maybe you need to just explain how you feel and that you need some time apart to get your finances back on board.
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]]> By: Sweetgal http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3096 Sweetgal Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:05:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3096 Marriage isn't easy it's really complicated. Leaving your husband because he can't keep a job isn't right cause no1 likes to be without a job especially when you're a father. Now when you say you're not in love with anymore that's a reason to leave him. I think you need some time alone to think it over and after a month or so if you don't miss your husband then maybe it is time to think about endind your marriage.<br><b>References : </b><br> Marriage isn’t easy it’s really complicated. Leaving your husband because he can’t keep a job isn’t right cause no1 likes to be without a job especially when you’re a father.
Now when you say you’re not in love with anymore that’s a reason to leave him. I think you need some time alone to think it over and after a month or so if you don’t miss your husband then maybe it is time to think about endind your marriage.
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]]> By: zorrotheliberator http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3095 zorrotheliberator Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:03:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3095 Lol, wow you must be young and not have been pooped on before, you take this as a life lesson, look that punk in the eyes and remember it, now move on and have a better life.<br><b>References : </b><br> Lol, wow you must be young and not have been pooped on before, you take this as a life lesson, look that punk in the eyes and remember it, now move on and have a better life.
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]]> By: ibuildfuru http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3094 ibuildfuru Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:01:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3094 Are you his mother or his spouse? Sounds to me like you have been mothering him for far too long. Suggest he go back to live with mom or auntie and get on with your life. I'd suggest some counseling so you can figure out why you, an intelligent and obviously very ambitious woman decided to marry someone who I'd bet was obviously doomed to failure from the start. Were you attracted to his low self esteem? You mention you never had much of a sex life with him, do have some issues or fears about sex? Counseling would help you to sort this out, lest you make this mistake again. You have your education coming up and you have this dragging you down. You very well could be setting yourself up to fail if you keep him along with you and you will end up being eternally angry and could possibly turn into a female version of him. Yes, you could don't fool yourself. Cut loose and as soon as you can. He is not your responsibility, send back home to mama so she can finish where she left off.<br><b>References : </b><br> Are you his mother or his spouse?

Sounds to me like you have been mothering him for far too long. Suggest he go back to live with mom or auntie and get on with your life.

I’d suggest some counseling so you can figure out why you, an intelligent and obviously very ambitious woman decided to marry someone who I’d bet was obviously doomed to failure from the start. Were you attracted to his low self esteem? You mention you never had much of a sex life with him, do have some issues or fears about sex? Counseling would help you to sort this out, lest you make this mistake again.

You have your education coming up and you have this dragging you down. You very well could be setting yourself up to fail if you keep him along with you and you will end up being eternally angry and could possibly turn into a female version of him. Yes, you could don’t fool yourself.

Cut loose and as soon as you can. He is not your responsibility, send back home to mama so she can finish where she left off.
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]]> By: Heather http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/comment-page-1/#comment-3093 Heather Wed, 03 Mar 2010 04:59:59 +0000 http://get-mylove-back.net/654/save-your-marriage-before-it%e2%80%99s-too-late/#comment-3093 Ok Why did you marry him? you seem like you are from two totally different worlds. <br><b>References : </b><br> Ok Why did you marry him? you seem like you are from two totally different worlds.
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