Should we get back together?
I dated this guy when I was a freshman. He graduated last year. We dated for a couple months, but then we kind of grew apart and I hooked up with another senior so we ended things. Me and him got back together over the summer and hooked up. We ended things again and didn’t start talking again until a couple months ago. He wants to Get Back Together, as in hook up, but doesn’t want an actual relationship because he’s leaving for college in August.
He doesn’t have a car and lives on the other side of the valley for me, so its kind of hard to hang out. But he’s being really sweet now. He keeps on saying stuff like that he misses me, can’t wait to see me again, will let me get back into the physical stuff as slow as possible, etc. And he found out that I got my cell phone re-connected (I had issues with my bills, lol) and he texted me like 5 times in a couple days before finding out that I don’t have texting.
Last weekend he also called me to see if I could go to this party with him. I didn’t end up going, but I expect he would’ve expected me to hook up with him there.
Do you think he really likes me, or just wants the sex? Do you think he’ll be able to fill my emotional needs if we get back together?
This sounds really weird.. But I was the one who talked about hooking up again. He just wanted to hang out, and I brought up hooking up. And he said that he’d be down with whatever I wanted and that he’d take it as slow as I wanted. But I dunno.
Oh and he was asked out by another girl who I consider to be more attractive than me, and who’s like 20, and he said no. I think that’s a good thing for me? haha.
And I don’t wanna try to go out with him either, I just want to be friends. Or FWB’s.
I am a guy and I can say with certainty that he just wants sex.
When he says he misses you he is just thinking of you as a sex partner and not as an intimate lover.
He basically told you that he just wanted sex when he said that he didn’t have time for a relationship.
His thoughts are, “I want some and I can get it from her until I leave for college, then I can get it from other girls there.”
Just move on and find another guy. Unless you are ok with being used.
a guy can get sex from another girl easier than u if ur wondering about this kind of stuff (not a bad thing at all lol, dont take it the wrong way) so i think he actually likes u and will fill you emotional need.
these are my opinions tho lol
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i think he wants sex if he wants to hook up with you at a party
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no it ended don’t try to start anything again
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do you still have feelings for him, does he like you, if you likke him then go for it. maybe hes "the one"
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who gives a sh*t lol you’re in school , you met this guy in school.. open your mind a little wider than just the grounds of your school .. and the guys in it.
you hooked up with him at a party and dated for a bit.
if you’re unsure, then hes probably not the one for you and hes prob using you for sex cos you’re obviously easy.
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im only 13 but i think if u 2 really like each othr thn u should get back togeher tht the distance thing wont mattr u can visit him sumtimes and he can call u since u dont have texting and i think he really like u not just saying he does for the sex bc a guy tht wants sex doesnt say "sweet" things he says things like ur hot ur sexy. and i think he will b able to fill ur emotional needs. goodluck(: hope i helped~!
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my ex said we were "good friends" in other words friends with benefits. I went along with his idea of just being good friends that hookup. But, as any other girl would, i kept getting feelings for him. He ultimately ended it because he knew i wanted more.
My advice, don’t get back with him. You’re gonna have to drive to him just so he can get what he wants. And when he says he misses you, he misses hooking up. I’m sorry to say it but you can find a guy that will WANT a relationship with you and will find a way to get to you. And he probably did want you to go to that party to hook up with you. Please don’t go the route i did. Because if you still have feelings for him then it will come back even stronger and you already know he doesn’t want a relationship and never will. He’s leaving so it won’t last long anyways.
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There is a reason you have an on again/off again relationship with him. It would be best to pass him by. He won’t be able to fulfill your emotional needs because it is likely that sex is his main focus. Let him go to college and do some growing up before you subject yourself to another round. Take a bit of advice from my mom, "Never make the same mistake twice."
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it depends on what you want. If you don’t want sex than you need to lay down the law and tell him you don’t want sex and if he cant respect that then you shouldn’t date. If you’re okay with sex then he needs to show you that’s not the only reason hes in the relationship. Maybe you should give him another chance
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I’m sorry to have to tell you this but based on the information you provided…I think he sees you as a booty call. I’m sorry…I’m sure you didn’t want to hear that but there would be no point to yahoo answers if I just told you what you wanted to hear. The red flag is that he wants to "hook up" but "doesn’t want an actual relationship because he’s leaving for college in August." No guy that really liked you and would take the time to fill your emotional needs would simply want to hook up with you. Sure he’s being really sweet and texting you a lot- he has hooked up with you in the past and think if he leads you on a little you will have sex again. It’s not that surprising that a guy will be nice to get what he wants…guys really want to get laid especially at that age. And it makes no sense that he says he’ll let you ease back into the physical stuff as slow as possible. I can’t believe he would even say that. Again, if he really liked you he wouldn’t even mention easing back into the physical stuff. He would just want to be with you and make you happy and such…anyways, just my opinion but please watch out for yourself. I know that guy’s can be very charming and blind you to their real motives so watch out for yourself. Good luck
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I am a guy and I can say with certainty that he just wants sex.
When he says he misses you he is just thinking of you as a sex partner and not as an intimate lover.
He basically told you that he just wanted sex when he said that he didn’t have time for a relationship.
His thoughts are, “I want some and I can get it from her until I leave for college, then I can get it from other girls there.”
Just move on and find another guy. Unless you are ok with being used.
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he doesn’t like u as a gf but one things for shure he will definitely fill your emotional hole lol its true
never mind that guy give ur time to someone who will make the effort to make u happy and be their for u instead of wondering if he likes u and if he will be their for you but any how good luck hun!
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Is it just me, or are women now-a-days just getting more and more pathetic.
"He’s being really sweet now. He keeps on saying stuff like that he misses me, can’t wait to see me again, will let me get back into the physical stuff as slow as possible"
Aww isnt’ that sweet? Experience tells men that these are words women like to hear.
Too bad these words work so well.
"Do you think he really likes me [NO], or just wants the sex? [YES] Do you think he’ll be able to fill my emotional needs if we get back together? [NO]
"And I don’t wanna try to go out with him either, I just want to be friends. Or FWB’s" [GOOD LUCK
WITH THAT]
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I’m a man and we know…