Why do couples get back together after they break up?
I see it quite often so I’d like to know what people think. Why do couples break up and then get back together after a month or you know, being apart for some time?
They break up to screw around with other people and then they realize how much they THINK they miss each other and get back together just to do it all over again.


Unresolved issues and feelings.
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They break up to screw around with other people and then they realize how much they THINK they miss each other and get back together just to do it all over again.
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Same reason people leave 1 company to go do the same job at another company, then come back to the first company in 6 months. Because it’s all the same b.s. with relationships, just different people.
Job hunting is like dating, everyone dresses their best, acts politely, puts on a show, both sides do it, employers and job candidates. Then when you land the job, you get tired of the grind every day, it’s always the same, you get a little raise each year and you get bored.
Same with relationships, the fun phase lasts a few months then you get serious or get married and it becomes a boring grind. You have to look forward to small moments of joy.
People break up because they think there’s something better, this relationship is stale, but then after they get a new person and it gets boring all over again, they realize that the original relationship was probably better anyway.
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They break up because they cant and dont want to deal with the problems in the relationship. Then they go around looking for something better, get restless, and think hey, maybe I can work on the problems. Sometimes the relationships can last, but sometimes when you get back together you realize why you broke up in the first place.
I did the break up and get back together thing when I was younger, immature, and didn’t know how to deal with problems.
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Because we like to believe that we can always make it work "this time around". When you break up, you have ended something that meant a lot to you at some time or another. Getting back together is like having a clean slate….starting fresh. It’s appealing to many people, and every good relationship deserves a second chance, doesn’t it?
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When your apart from someone that’s when you realize the severity of your relationship. You realize that you truly care about the person and want to work things out.
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They do because they WANT to.
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