Which one of the three corners of a triangle is the most important?

Or to put it another way, which one of the three can you take away in order to leave a triangle? Obviously, if you take out any one of them, your triangle will collapse. The same goes for a long distance relationship. It actually applies to any relationship, but I’ll show you why it’s so crucially important in a long distance relationship.

Communication

There is no such thing as a relationship without communication. If you want one-way communication, get yourself a potted plant. They’re also very good at one way communication. Some people even say their potted plants thrive when they talk to them. But there’s very few people that would admit their plants actually talk back to them.

Communication is such a basic part of every day life, that you’d think most people would be quite proficient at it. Breathing is an important part of everyday life, and most people seem to manage it quite fine, so communication should be a breeze shouldn’t it? (pun not intended) Guess again! Most people don’t know the first thing about communication.

What do you think is the single most common reason for marriages ending in divorce? Make your pick from the following: Infidelity (unfaithfulness), communication, violence, sexual problems, money problems, too busy lifestyle, or self-centeredness.

Apparently (I didn’t verify this statistic) fully 85% of marriages that end up in the divorce court, end because of a lack of communication. Looking at the list above, you will see that communication actually plays a part in most, if not all of the other factors. Whether or not you are married or just in a serious relationship doesn’t make the slightest difference here. Your relationship may not end up in a divorce court, but the reason for it breaking could be exactly the same.

Becoming a good communicator

It’s all fine and well that you now know communication is so very important, but what good does it do you if I don’t help you to communicate better? In order to help you, I’m going to show you a few basics of communication. People communicate differently due to various reasons, including, but not limited to:

- maturity

- sex

- culture

- temperament

Maturity

Your level of maturity is mirrored by your communication. I don’t mean you should sit around and complain about the good old days like old people, I just mean that you need to (at least some times) be able to have a good heart-to-heart discussion about important issues.

I can’t think how an immature person would handle a long distance relationship. If you are in a long distance relationship and you want it to work, you will have to handle it in a very mature way. This is especially important due to the fact that you are not together all the time. Your communication time is limited, so when you need to discuss serious matters, you can’t just shy away from it.

So what do you do if your partner isn’t mature? Well, luckily, maturity is something you can learn. People are born with a certain tendency towards maturity, but the more mature you act the more mature you will become. If your partner is serious about your relationship he will make it work. Sit down and have a mature discussion about it. This is sometimes one of those things that you just need to point out for the change to occur.

Sex

We all know men and women communicate differently, and I’m not just referring to the actual topics of the conversation. Men focus more on words and technicalities, whereas women focus more on tone of voice and body language. And that’s a pretty big generalization. Just remember, when you’re talking to somebody of the opposite sex that that person may interpret your meaning in a completely different way than what you initially intended. Be aware of that fact, and you can save yourself a world of trouble.

Culture

This is especially important for couples that are of different backgrounds. And I’m not just referring to different ethnic backgrounds. Even people from the same ethnic background, but different parts of the same country can have very different ways of communication.

You should never hide behind the fact that you’re from a different culture. What I mean is: If you know certain people find certain words offensive, even though where you come from they have different meanings, it doesn’t give you the right to abuse that fact. When communicating with your partner, always keep your backgrounds in consideration.

Temperament

You all know those people that seemingly get offended at everything? Or what about those people who seem to offend everybody with their style? Even though it’s also not something to hide behind, it’s probably a factor of their different personalities (temperaments). It’s a good idea, if you’re in a serious relationship, to find out exactly what personality type both you and your partner are. It will make communication so much easier. You will suddenly understand why, for example your partner misinterprets certain things you say, or why she sometimes seems so harsh on you.

Commitment

There really isn’t much to say about this. When you find somebody you really love, you WILL commit to that person. If you don’t, then your relationship is doomed from the start. There can be no relationship when there is no commitment. The moment an even remotely interesting third party shows up, your relationship will be down the drain if you haven’t committed to each other.

Commitment is something that you will have to work on. It builds heavily on the communication you have in your relationship, but also on trust. See why I say none of the three corners can be removed?

Trust

Let me just start of by saying this: Distrust is normal. Don’t feel like a terrible person just because you don’t always trust your partner. By the way; you thought your partner was great, so somebody else may just think the same way. But before you let trust – or the lack thereof – ruin your relationship, just ask yourself the following question: Why am I distrustful?

Do you have a valid reason for distrusting your partner? Really think about it for a while. If you both really love each other and are truly committed, why are you worrying? One of the main reasons to be distrustful is probably because of mass media. We’ve all seen movies, TV shows or have read books where the husband/wife comes home early only to find an untrustworthy partner in bed with someone else.

Does this really happen? Unfortunately it does. Does it happen nearly as often as we are made to believe? I’ve seen the Golden Gate Bridge being destroyed at least 5 times during the last 10 years. Funnily enough, it’s still standing; despite what Hollywood thinks should be happening. I’ve also seen at least 6 different attempts by aliens to take over or destroy the planet (some more humorous than others). I’ve still to see my first real alien – the green tentacled type, not the illegal immigrant type.

Suffice it to say this: Trust is like respect. The more you give, the more you will get. If you really trust your partner, it will show, and you will receive the trust back. You weren’t planning on cheating were you? Of course not, so trust you partner to do the same.

But here, once again, the three corners of the triangle will have to work together. I firmly believe that the more you communicate, and the more openly you communicate, the more you will learn to trust each other. And the more you trust each other the more committed you will be to each other. And the more committed you are, the more you will trust each other and communicate with each other.

I can carry on like this for a few more paragraphs until you are completely dizzy, but I’m certain you understand by now. If you feel you need to work on one of these points, you will have to work on all three of them.

Leon Louw
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How to Win Your Ex Back – Will My Ex and I Get Back Together?

Will I and my ex Get Back Together if we have already broken up for a very long time?

Well, it depends on several conditions. Usually, the longer you have broken up, the lower your chances are. However, this is not necessary true. There are cases of couples getting back together after one year of separation. In fact, the one year separation might have played the part of helping them get back together.

In fact, I have even heard of couples getting back together after being separated from one another for a few decades. Of, these are the more unusual cases and we are not going to focus on them in this article.

So, how do I know what are my chances of success to get my ex back.

First, has he/she moved on? Is he/she already dating another person and going steady. If that is the case, it is advisable that you moved on too. It is usually not such a good idea to be the third party and break up a couple. Certainly, you do not wish this to happen to you too.

However, if he/she is still single, that your chances of success is much higher. Of course, we also need to look at the reason why he/she has chosen to remain single. Ideally, he/she stays single because he/she still wants you back. Another reason is because he/she is afraid to be hurt again in another relationship.

Another factor that you will want to consider is whether he/she still calls you. If the answer is yes and he/she still calls you every now and then, then this is also an indication that your ex wants to be back together with you.

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How Do You Win Your Ex Back – Getting Back Together With Your Ex

How to win your ex back if your ex is ignoring you totally? Is there still a possibility for me to win my ex back if I can’t even get the chance to talk to my ex?

Perhaps you are facing the situation as described above. Well, even if the situation is looking quite bad now, it may not be as bad as you think. Let us look at it this way. You ex may be ignoring you now, but that does not mean your ex will ignore you forever.

Usually, there are reasons why your ex is ignoring you. Perhaps, we have to first look how long you have broken up with your ex.

If you have just broken up with your ex, it is usually not surprising that your ex is trying to avoid you. First, your ex may not be ready to face you yet, that is why your ex decided to avoid you.

In fact, if you have just broken up, it is probably not a good idea for you to contact him/her. First, you are probably feeling quite upset now. With your current emotional state, it is easy for you to do or say the wrong things to your ex and make the situation worse.

This is definitely what you want to avoid at all cost. Therefore, unless it is necessary to meet your ex(assuming that both of you are colleagues or classmates), try not to contact him/her for the time being.

You should give him/her some space and time to think things through. In fact, you will also need this time and pace to think things through too. This will allow you to look at your relationship more objectively. Once you figure out what went wrong in your relationship, you will be in a better position to fix it and thus increase your chances to win your ex back.

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You want to attract women, so you should listen to women about how to do this. It sounds logical enough, but if you’re really interested in getting the woman you want, you should never listen to what women say about dating. Women only think they know what they want. The really intelligent ones know that they want things other than what they tell you they want, but most of them don’t even realize that their dream man is very different from the perfect boyfriend that every woman says she wants.

Women often tell men to treat the woman they’re interested in with respect and bring her gifts like flowers or fine chocolates. It’s classy, it’s romantic, and it doesn’t work in any dating arena. If you’re looking for women in nightclubs or other social venues, know that these ladies are going to be on-guard for predators. As a matter of course, they’ll put any man who approaches them through a battery of tests. The unsuccessful suitor either fails her tests or passes them at his own expense. The successful suitor, on the other hand, lets his lady know that he’s got enough quality to not need to pass her tests — he’s exempt. This is the answer that women of quality secretly want to hear. As for flowers and chocolates, don’t even consider them until the fourth or fifth date, and even then, find out what her preferences and allergies are before you make that kind of investment.

Another oft-spoken word of advice that women give to men is “Be yourself.” If you’ve been yourself around women and it hasn’t gotten you anywhere, then it’s obvious that this advice doesn’t work. Therefore, do not be yourself. Be better, bolder, and more ambitious than yourself. Become the man you truly want to be. No one, male or female, wants to be cowardly and shy. Change yourself. Do not let your own laziness doom you to a life of loneliness.

Why is it that women give such bad relationship advice to men? A lot of it stems from the fact that women’s brains work differently than men’s brains. It’s a proven scientific fact, but even the most well-intentioned lady doesn’t always appreciate that a man follows a different set of guidelines and conventions than a woman does. Her ideas are flawed because they proceed from the false assumption that she understands what’s going on in a man’s head. She doesn’t. She can’t. She’s never been a man and therefore has never thought like one.

Another reason that women give such bad relationship advice lies in the fact that most women don’t realize what they’re truly attracted to. The women who do know what they truly want in a man will never say what they truly want in a man. That’s because women are truly attracted to a man who is powerful and mysterious, who does the unexpected and maintains a cool composure, who knows who he is and what he wants. What women truly want is the challenge of taking this sort of bad boy and taming him into a gentleman. Like the heroines of Greek mythology, they are looking for a man who has the courage to hold his own against her, and she wants to be pleasantly surprised when she finally loses to him.

Women don’t say these things to a man because it’s the ultimate secret and the ultimate show of weakness. Most of them won’t even talk about it among themselves. How, then, can you expect women to share any real insight into the inner workings of their minds with men?

Ivan Stivenson
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You want to attract women, so you should listen to women about how to do this. It sounds logical enough, but if you’re really interested in getting the woman you want, you should never listen to what women say about dating. Women only think they know what they want. The really intelligent ones know that they want things other than what they tell you they want, but most of them don’t even realize that their dream man is very different from the perfect boyfriend that every woman says she wants.

Women often tell men to treat the woman they’re interested in with respect and bring her gifts like flowers or fine chocolates. It’s classy, it’s romantic, and it doesn’t work in any dating arena. If you’re looking for women in nightclubs or other social venues, know that these ladies are going to be on-guard for predators. As a matter of course, they’ll put any man who approaches them through a battery of tests. The unsuccessful suitor either fails her tests or passes them at his own expense. The successful suitor, on the other hand, lets his lady know that he’s got enough quality to not need to pass her tests — he’s exempt. This is the answer that women of quality secretly want to hear. As for flowers and chocolates, don’t even consider them until the fourth or fifth date, and even then, find out what her preferences and allergies are before you make that kind of investment.

Another oft-spoken word of advice that women give to men is “Be yourself.” If you’ve been yourself around women and it hasn’t gotten you anywhere, then it’s obvious that this advice doesn’t work. Therefore, do not be yourself. Be better, bolder, and more ambitious than yourself. Become the man you truly want to be. No one, male or female, wants to be cowardly and shy. Change yourself. Do not let your own laziness doom you to a life of loneliness.

Why is it that women give such bad relationship advice to men? A lot of it stems from the fact that women’s brains work differently than men’s brains. It’s a proven scientific fact, but even the most well-intentioned lady doesn’t always appreciate that a man follows a different set of guidelines and conventions than a woman does. Her ideas are flawed because they proceed from the false assumption that she understands what’s going on in a man’s head. She doesn’t. She can’t. She’s never been a man and therefore has never thought like one.

Another reason that women give such bad relationship advice lies in the fact that most women don’t realize what they’re truly attracted to. The women who do know what they truly want in a man will never say what they truly want in a man. That’s because women are truly attracted to a man who is powerful and mysterious, who does the unexpected and maintains a cool composure, who knows who he is and what he wants. What women truly want is the challenge of taking this sort of bad boy and taming him into a gentleman. Like the heroines of Greek mythology, they are looking for a man who has the courage to hold his own against her, and she wants to be pleasantly surprised when she finally loses to him.

Women don’t say these things to a man because it’s the ultimate secret and the ultimate show of weakness. Most of them won’t even talk about it among themselves. How, then, can you expect women to share any real insight into the inner workings of their minds with men?

Ivan Stivenson
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Not So Good Ways to Get Your Ex Back – Mistakes to Avoid When Getting Back Your Ex

If you have already broken up with your ex but still wants to Get Back Together with him/her, you are probably wondering what are the ways to get your ex back.

There are in fact many ways to get Your Ex Back. To make things simple, we can divide them into 2 ways. The good way as well as the not so good ways.

In this article, let us focus on discussing the not so good ways. You will want to be aware of them so that you will not make those mistakes when you are trying to get your ex back.

So, what are those not so good ways that you should avoid doing to get your ex back?

1)     Have you been calling him/her very often

No matter how tempted you are, you do not want to call your ex too often. Maybe your ex is ignoring you? You called him/her but never got any answer? So, you decided to try several more times hoping that he/she will decide to pick up the phone.

Don’t do that. There are many reasons why you do not want to do that. One reason is that you do not want to force your ex to cut off all contacts with you in the future.

2)     Have you argued with your ex over the break up

It is hard not to do so when you can’t accept the reason given for the break up. Again, you want to refrain from doing that. Most of the time, arguing doesn’t work. It will only make the situation worse.

Instead, you might want to do something counter intuitive. You want to agree with the break up instead. This is what your ex will never expect. In fact, when you do that, your ex may even regret his/her decision of breaking up with you.

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Getting My Girlfriend Back – Get My Ex Girl Back Fast

“Is getting my girlfriend back a difficult task? Will I be able to get her back?”

If you are feeling troubled or losing sleep over the question above, there is good news for you. I personally believed that no matter how bad your situation seems to you, you definitely still stand a chance to get your girlfriend back.

Miracles are always happening day in day out. There are couples who can get reunited even after several decades of separation. For example recently, I just read about a couple who get reunited after 30 years of separation.

If this kind of miracles can happen, you can also create miracle in your relationship too.

Obviously, you don’t want to take 30 years to get your girlfriend back. You want to get your girlfriend back fast. Obviously, it would be unrealistic to expect yourself to get her back overnight.

But there are definitely things you can avoid so that you will not slow down your progress.

First and foremost, avoid doing things that makes you look desperate and needy. Girls do not like desperate and needy guys. In fact, this applies to guys too. You definitely will not like a desperate and needy girl.

So, you will want to avoid doing things like begging her to come back, telling her how much you miss her and how much you have been thinking of her etc. You also do not want to call her too often or argue over the break up.

By avoiding all these mistakes, it will help to get you ex back. If you have already made those mistakes, don’t worry. There is an opening move that you can use to reverse your situation. In fact, it may even improve your situation.

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Getting an Ex Back Mistake – You Are Not Trying to Win a Debate

Is getting an ex back possible? How can I increase my chances to get an ex back?

Well, there is really no way to guarantee that you will definitely win Your Ex Back and sometimes, it is simply not the best idea to get an ex back.

However, there are certain things that you can do to improve your situation. In fact, there are also things to avoid in order not to reduce your chances of success.

Perhaps, one of the biggest mistakes that one can make is trying to argue with an ex over the break up. Perhaps you r ex has given you a reason or two for the break up. Yet you find that the reasons given are unacceptable. So, the next thing you do is to try to prove them wrong.

This is a big mistake and is something you must avoid at all cost. Well, it is true. The reasons given may be unacceptable. But the fact is that, your ex has already decided to break up with you. Even if you manage to convince your ex that his/her reason is wrong, it is usually not going to convince him/her to come back to you.

Why is that so?

Well, there is usually an underlying problem that causes a break up. Unless that underlying problem is resolve, you are not likely to get your ex back and even if you get your ex back, it is possible that the underlying problem will resurface and cause another break up.

Furthermore, when we have decided to do something, nothing much is going to make us change our mind. And we always like to give a reason or two to justify why we are doing that, even if the reason doesn’t really make sense.

This is just like your ex deciding to break up with you. Nothing much is going to make him/her change his/her mind. And of course, your ex decided to give you a reason to justify his/her action even though the reason doesn’t seem valid.

In fact, your ex may not even be clear about why he/she wants to break up with you. That’s why your ex can’t give you any acceptable reasons. All he/she knows is that he/she wants to break up with you.

Arguing is only one of the many common mistakes that many people made while getting an ex back. By avoiding all those common mistakes, you will put yourself in a much better position to get an ex back.

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Mankind is essentially spiritual. I don’t even understand how people can discredit the unseen when they are aware of its presence all around them. We walk through a sea of air which cannot be seen. Radio waves that we cannot see are passing through us constantly. We’re bombarded by atoms and neutrons and protons that are completely invisible. We scientifically understand the spaces that exist between the actual “matters” of even the densest materials on earth are big enough to drive a truck through. Yet we see, touch and feel them as if they are solid. Science has taught us the unseen is much vaster and varied than the material world we look at every day. There are colors we cannot see and sounds we cannot hear but we know they exist.

We can’t see the wind but we can feel the wind so we know it is there. Similarly we cannot see love but we can feel love so we know it is there. Where does love begin and end? From where does love originate? Are you, as an individual, able to manufacture love? The answer is no, you draw love from an unseen source. In fact, I will state it quite candidly. We are in a perpetual infinite sea of love itself. When we seek love it is like a fish in the ocean seeking water. The very substance of love is the substance of the universe. But because we have free will we are able to close off that part of us which receives love and imagine it doesn’t exist for us; but it does.

In the temporary confines of our human selves we lose sight of reality, the love that surrounds us. We imagine we have to find love and when we find the right person we give love. This world can be seen as a terrible place when we don’t feel loved. We get into all sorts of mischief desperately seeking someone to love and someone who will love us in return. But there is a trick. The trick is to recognize relationships as a very specific reality within this unreality, a safe environment where we can give our love without fear. When we have established the relationship of a marriage or our intention to be married we agree to open our hearts so love can flow through without restrictions. As a human being you are capable of loving every single human being in the world. Why don’t you? Somehow you have it in your head that if you love everyone and everything you become vulnerable, so you restrict yourself and feel the pain of the restriction. Now I’m not saying that you should become promiscuous or a flower child of the sixties. I am saying giving love is not the same as expressing love. When you are in a safe relationship, i.e. marriage, you can express love fully and that is in fact one of the purposes of marriage. The point is when you are in a marital relationship it is to your benefit to give love in as many great ways as you can imagine. When you do so you open up a channel within yourself and you are able to feel and receive the love you are giving.

We have all heard the expression that the more love you give the more you’ll receive. It is a true statement but completely misunderstood. It isn’t as people imagine that when you give love to others they will want to love you back. People love who they love, not those who love them. What the saying means is when you give love you are experiencing the love that is flowing through you. The fact of the matter is giving love allows you to feel love in more of an adulterated form. The love that you give is coming directly from the source of love, rather than the filtered version that comes from someone else. Does this make sense to you? So, interestingly, you receive far more love by giving it than by getting it.

We are essentially spiritual beings who thrive on love because love comes from the same source we come from: God. To deny God is to deny love and to deny love is to deny God. This is not a religious thought but rather a very practical thought that allows us to enjoy our existence. There is no greater enjoyment and feeling than love. So please remember to tell your spouse or your significant other, “I love you.”

Paul Friedman
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How to Win Back My Ex With This Principle – I Want to Get Back Together With My Ex

Perhaps you have already broken up with your ex but you still love your ex very much. You really want to win your ex back. So, what can you do to increase your chances of getting back your ex?

Well, there are definitely no one who can guarantee that you can definitely win your ex back. However, you do not want to worry over those situations that you can’t influence directly. The fact is there are things that you have control over.

By focusing on them, you stand a much better chance to win your ex back. For example, do you know that many men and women tend to make certain common mistakes during the process of getting back their ex?

If you know what those mistakes are, do you think you will have a higher chance to avoid making them? Perhaps, understanding this principle will help you to avoid those mistakes.

“People want what they do not or cannot easily have.”

This is very true whether in your relationship or in other areas of your life. The harder it is for you to get something, the more you want it. Of course, the contrary is also true.

The easier for you to get something, the more you will take it for granted. In fact, it wouldn’t surprise me that you may even start to push it away.

In fact, the many mistakes that men and women make after a break up are actually violation of this principle. A very common mistake is calling your ex over and over again.

This is a mistake because it is a sign of desperation. Desperation is only going to push your ex even further away.

So, how is this mistake link to the principle mentioned above? Well, when you act with desperation, it means your ex can easily get you. When you can get something easily, you will take it for granted.

And of course, by acting out of desperation, you are actually pushing yourself towards your ex. Naturally, according to the principle, when you can get something very easily, you will even start to reject it. That is why your ex will want to avoid you even more.

By understanding this principle and how it works, you will be able to avoid many more mistakes and be in a better position to win back your ex.

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