Everyone says that they need space from each other and eventually they will get back together. They really love each other. The guy told me he wanted to be with her for the rest of his life before they broke up. He says he plans to get back with her when the time is right but what if he doesn’t and her hopes are up for nothing. What can I say or do to make them realize they need each other? A quote a song anything?! This girl is like my little sister, she means the world to me. Help me please.

Let them work out their relationship. If you try to influence the results you’ll eventually be hated by both parties.

If you can stay neutral, keep your perspective and maintain your boundaries, then you can befriend both and listen to both. Don’t carry messages or get in between them you’ll only hurt them and yourself.

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i was with my ex for two years and i even lived with him for almost a year when we were dating… and he broke up with me once and i moved out and then we got back together the day after that… and i was totally stoked, and then a couple months later he broke up with me again( i didn’t even do anything wrong) and i moved out and then we got back together and i had to unpack and everything and i was happy…. but i was starting to get scared that he wasn’t happy with me.. and we started fighting more and more, and we broke up again… and this time i gave him his space and moved out… a couple months later we started talking again and we were kinda friends with benefits…. and i thought if i did that he would take me back but he never did and then he went and got a new g.f… and i figured out everything happens for a reason… if he broke up with you then maybe he just wasn’t happy with you… and maybe you should leave it where it is… i know its hard and i know its going to hurt… some nights i still wake up screaming because it hurts so bad… but i knew that if we got back together he wwasn’tgoing to be happy and i was just going to be worried and stressed out all the time waiting for him to break up with me again..

here’s a quote i like:

you can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months, over- analyzing a situation: trying to put the pieces together. justifying what would’ve would’ve happened- or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on. -tupac

p.s in my experience when i wrote an ex a letter or something they took it as immature second grade not passing stuff, and they kinda just laughed at me.. i would say that if this is really what you want, then give him his space and send him a cute text or something that says "always thinking of you" or "missing you". and depending his reaction on that then either stop trying or if he seems to take it well just try to talk to him calmy. with out freaking out, or write him a letter… but don’t crowd him, guys tend to freak out when they loose their space… so just take it slow and calmly =) i really hope i helped. you can email me if you need more help♥

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Romance is in the air – especially this month with Valentines everywhere you look. But for many people, romantic relationships seem unattainable or current love connections lack the sparks they once created. Feng Shui, the ancient art of object placement to enhance energy flow through a space, is gaining attention as a powerful tool for improving all kinds of relationships.

“Feng Shui can make a marked difference in people’s lives,” says Linda Binns, founder of the Feng Shui Success Institute and author of Feng Shui for Your Relationships: Changing Your Environment to Create Better Relationships. “But before you start moving things around or making changes to your environment, it’s important to clarify exactly what you want to change.”

Binns notes that this process, which she calls “setting your intention,” is a crucial first step that will guide your subsequent actions. “Perhaps you want to strengthen or rekindle the flame of an existing relationship. Perhaps you want to attract an exciting new romantic partner to your life. Perhaps you want to find a life partner with which to share the future. While there can be a variety of issues or scenarios, it is important to begin by considering your current situation and recognizing what you would like to change.”

After setting a clear intention, Binns recommends a variety of actions that can enhance the flow of positive energy in the home, creating a more conducive environment in which to achieve your desires. A few of her basic tips include:

– To symbolize a close relationship, it is important to position decorative items in pairs. For instance, display a painting of a couple, place two ornaments together, or hang two pictures that form a set. Two flowers in a vase or two stuffed animals beside one another are other examples of pairs that you can place in your environment.

– If you already have a partner whom you wish to become closer to, it is important to display photos that feature you as a couple. Pictures of you with your partner and other individuals, whether family or friends, symbolize your propensity to give up time as a couple in order to become part of a larger group.

– Clutter and other distractions in the bedroom, such as exercise equipment, a television, work-related items or a computer, serves to bring unwanted distractions into your relationship. Your bedroom should be a sanctuary that feels romantic and invites you to spend time with your loved one.

– Make sure that the side of your bed is not against a wall because this position symbolizes only one way in and out of the bed and indicates that there is room for only one person.

– When you make your bed, keep it relatively uncluttered and create a space that will easily accommodate a couple.

– Master bedrooms ideally feature warm, soothing colors, such as cream, taupe, cocoa, or shades with a red or pink base. Such warm bedroom colors represent warm, close relationships.

– When you remove clutter, don’t move anything to a storage box under your bed. People store all kinds of things under the bed – fire extinguishers, ladders, guns, papers, books, exercise equipment and more. Remember that, based on the principles of Feng Shui, energy should freely flow throughout a space, including under the bed.

– Large bedrooms should feature cozy, intimate nooks, such as sitting areas. Again, creating an intimate space reflects an intimate relationship.

Binns says that these are among the basic steps that help set the stage for romance. She details these and other strategies in her new book and offers specific guidelines on which portions of a home are especially important when seeking to create or improve various types of relationships. More information on Feng Shui for Relationships can be found at http://www.harmonyinandout.com .

“Let’s face it, our relationships do not always go as smoothly as we would like,” she says. “Whether we’re dealing with our partner, children, coworkers, friends or even mailman, our interactions with others can be tricky. As we struggle to make things work, often spending considerable time and emotional energy to figure out why certain relationships seem so difficult, many people fail to look at their environment as a factor in the way they manifest their lives. Yet for those who become familiar with the principles and practice of Feng Shui, the results can be remarkable.”

Linda Binns, Feng Shui Expert, HarmonyInandOut.com
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